Day:-71 Meri Kurbani, Mera Farz aur Ye Beraham Saza

 




🙏🙏 "Jai shree shyam Radhe Radhe!"🙏🙏

Kya ek aurat ki mehnat ki koi keemat nahi?

Aaj main aap sabse ek sawal puchna chahti hoon.

 Ek acchi bahu aur ek acchi patni ki paribhasha kya hoti hai? 

Kya ek patni ka farz apne pati ki har ek farmaish ko palkon par rakhna nahi hota? Maine wahi kiya. Kya ek bahu ka farz saas-sasur, devar aur ghar ke har sadasya ka dhyan rakhna nahi hota? Maine wo bhi kiya. Aaj mera dil rota hai jab main un dino ko yaad karti hoon.

Mera sangharsh aur meri khamoshi

Log kehte hain main ghar mein karti hi kya thi? Par kya unhe wo 5 bade kamre nahi dikhte jinki safai main akeli karti thi? Upar se niche tak ki wo che-che sidhiyan, jin par roz jhadu-pocha lagate huye meri kamar toot jati thi, par maine kabhi uff nahi ki. Sabke kapde dhona, unhe iron karke sahi jagah par saja kar rakhna, har guest ki khatir-daari karna—maine har choti se choti chij ka dhyan rakha. Maine apne mayke se zyada apne sasural ko apna maana, unki ijjat ko apni ijjat samjha.

Galti kahan hui?

Maine hamesha sabki ijjat dhaki. Mujh par jo guz ri, maine kabhi kisi ko nahi bataya, yahan tak ki apne ma-baap aur bhai ko bhi andhere mein rakha. Mujhe lagta tha ki ghar ki baat bahar gayi toh ijjat uchhal jayegi. Par aaj wahi ijjat bachane ki koshish meri sabse badi bhool ban gayi. Aaj main 'Bali ka Bakra' ban gayi hoon. Kurbani maine di, saari mehnat maine ki, par saza bhi mujhe hi mil rahi hai.

Mera Sawal Samaj Se:

Main aaj aap sabse puchti hoon—main kis farz se chuki thi jiske badle mujhe apne bacche se 7 mahine ki judai ki saza mil rahi hai? Ek acchi bahu aur kya karti hai jo maine nahi kiya? Maine ghar chamkaya, rishte sambhale, apni sehat ki parvah nahi ki, bimar bacche ke liye raaton ko jaagi, phir bhi aaj main akeli kyun hoon? Kya ek aurat ki itni sari mehnat ek kharab huye dhokle ke batter se bhi kamzor hoti hai? Kya meri mamta aur meri kurbaniyon ka koi hisab nahi hai?

Kyun chuni maine ye Digital Diary?

Jab ye sab kuch mere bardasht ke bahar ho gaya, jab ghutan itni badh gayi ki dum nikalne laga, tab maine is Digital Diary ko chuna. Log puchenge ki main ye sab kyun likh rahi hoon? Kyunki yahi ek platform hai jise main apna "Sathi" maanti hoon. Yahan main apna wo dard nikal pa rahi hoon jo sadiyon se mere seene mein dafan tha. Ye meri awaaz hai, mera wo dard hai jo shayad bol kar kabhi bahar nahi aata. Mujhse sawal puchne walon, pehle meri un tut-ti sanson aur un thaki hui baahon ka hisab do jo saalon tak bina ruke is ghar ke liye chalti rahi.



Shayari

"Mere bacchon, aaj tumhare kaano mein zeher bhara ja raha hai,

Meri mamta ko tumhari nazron mein gunaah banaya ja raha hai.

Aaj chote ho, shayad unki jhoothi baaton mein aa jaoge,

Par jab bade ho kar meri ye 'Diary' padhoge, toh ro padoge.

Maine har zakhm seha, har din tumhare liye khud ko jalaya hai,

Ye blog meri khamoshi nahi, meri sacchai ka sarmaya hai "

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#Maa Ka Pyar #Justice For Mother #Sacrifice #Indian Housewife #Digital Diary #Truth Prevails #Family Issues #Khwab Udano ki #Women Empowerment #Mental Health

🙏🙏jai shree shyam Radhe Radhe!🙏🙏

"Meri Kahani, Meri Jubani..."

"Doston, ye blog sirf shabd nahi, mere dil ke tukde hain. Agar aapko lagta hai ki ek maa ka apni sacchai kehna sahi hai, toh please mujhe support kijiye.

Comment Karein: Aapka ek chota sa comment mujhe himmat deta hai ki main akeli nahi hoon.

Share Karein: Ise itna share karein ki ye sacchai har us insaan tak pahuche jo kisi ki khamoshi ko uski kamzori samajhta hai.

Like Karein: Agar aap meri is 'Udaan' mein mere saath hain.

Mere pichle sangharsh ki kahani padhne ke liye niche diye gaye link par click karein:

👈 Pichla Adhyay (Day 70): [https://khwabudanoki.blogspot.com/2026/04/day-70-rishton-ki-bheed-mein-akela.html]

Aapki duaon ki talabgaar... "

📌 Mere Safar ke Kuch Khas Panne (Zaroor Padhein):

"Doston, aaj main jahan hoon, wahan tak pahunchne ke liye maine bahut dard bhara rasta tay kiya hai. Mere sangharsh ko gehrai se samajhne ke liye aap meri ye purani yaadein bhi padh sakte hain:"


🌆 Lockdown ki Wo Yaadein (March 2020): Chhat Par Wo Ummeed Ka Shor

🕯️ Ek Ummeed Ka Diya: 9 Baje 9 Minute Ka Nazara

[https://khwabudanoki.blogspot.com/2020/04/9-baje-9-minute-ka-nazara.html]

💔 Jab Sab Toot Gaya Tha: Jab Maine Haar Maan Li Thi

[https://khwabudanoki.blogspot.com/2020/05/jab-maine-haar-maan-li-thi.html]

👶 Beti ki Wo Masoomiyat: Date 21 May 2020 - Beti Ki Baatein

[https://khwabudanoki.blogspot.com/2020/05/date-21-may-2020-time-0845-pm-beti-ki.html]

🍳 Ghar ki Chakki mein Pisat Jeevan: Kitchen Ki Chakki Aur Thaka hua tan

[https://khwabudanoki.blogspot.com/2020/05/kitchen-ki-chakki-aur-thaka-hua-tan.html]

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