Jab Duniya Ke Shor Mein Apni Awaaz Kho Jaaye – Ek Safar Swabhimaan Ki Ore

 

🙏🙏" Jai shree shyam Jai sanvariya Seth Radhe Radhe."

Shayari: 

"Duniya ki parwah karna chhod diya hai maine,

Apni khushi ka rasta khud mod diya hai maine.

Ab na kisi ki bandish, na kisi ka darr hai,

Apne swabhimaan ki taraf, ye mera naya safar hai."

Day:116

Zindagi aksar humein aise mod par la khada karti hai jahan humein apne swabhimaan aur aaram ke beech chunna padta hai. Mere liye ye safar bahut lamba aur chunautipurn raha hai. Aaj jab main pichhe mud kar dekhti hoon, toh mujhe woh saara shor aur woh saari galliyan yaad aati hain, jinhein maine lambe arse tak chupchap saha hai. Ek aisa samay jab sab kuch hote hue bhi, mere paas khud ki koi cheez nahi thi.

1. Kya Sukh-Suvidha Hi Sab Kuch Hai?

Jab main apne purane ghar mein thi, toh wahan sab kuch tha—do waqt ka khana aur logon ka bada parivaar. Dahi ki ek katori se lekar ghar ke chote-mote faislon tak, sab kuch mere saamne tha. Log kehte the, "Sab toh hai, kya chahiye?" Par sach ye tha ki wahan meri apni koi "marzi" nahi thi. Gali sunna, taane jhelna aur roz apne swabhimaan ko maarna—kya yehi zindagi hai? Dimaag kehta tha, "kam se kam pet toh bhara hai," par dil jaanta tha ki ye aaram nahi, ek ghutne wali jail hai. Woh dahi ki katori shayad swaad mein achhi thi, par uske badle jo keemat maine chukai, woh mera 'aatmasamman' tha.

2. Aaj Ki Kahani: Nari Sashaktikaran Ka Asli Sach

Kal meri dukaan par ek aunty aayi thi. Unki aankhon mein 30 saal ka wo dard tha jo maine chupa hua dekha. 30 saal—ek lamba arsa hota hai—jahan unhone ghar ko sambhala, bachon ko paala, par badle mein kya mila? Sirf apmaan aur 'sabzi ke paise' ka hisaab.

Had toh tab ho gayi jab unhone bataya ki unke ghar mein har jagah CCTV cameras hain. Washroom ke bahar, yahan tak ki kitchen mein bhi! Ek aurat apne hi ghar mein kapde badalne tak ke liye jagah dhoon-dti phirti hai. Jab kitchen mein bhi camera lag gaya, toh wo kahan jaye? Kya ek aurat ki niji zindagi (privacy) ki koi keemat nahi? Paisa toh bohot hai unke paas, par soch itni gandi aur ghatiya hai ki sunkar rooh kaa-np jaye.

💡 Kya Dusron Ka Sahara Kaafi Hai? (Ek Kadwi Sachai)

Kal jab maine un aunty ki baatein suni, toh mera dil baith gaya. Wo chahti hain ki koi aur jakar unke liye baat kare, unke ghar mein badlav laye. Par sach toh ye hai:

Tamasha vs. Madad: Aaj ki duniya mein kisi ko kisi se matlab nahi hai. Jab aap apni ladai dusron par chhodte hain, toh log sirf 'tamasha' dekhte hain. Koi bhi bahar wala aapke ghar mein jakar aapki ladai nahi lad sakta.

Mard ka Ahankaar: Jab tak koi aurat apne khilaf ho rahi badtameezi par khamosh rehti hai, tab tak mard khud ko 'sher' hi samajhte hain. Unhe lagta hai ki aap kabhi stand nahi lengi, isliye wo aur majboot hote jaate hain.

Sacrifice ka Matlab: Aunty  Ko Kisi Ne Idea Diya ki vah apni SAS ko bole ki aap apne   "bete ko sambhalo, main ja rahi hoon." Par kya chor kar bhagne se problem khatam hogi? Nahi! Woh aurat ke jaane ke baad unke bete ko aur zyada badtameez bana denge.

Asli Stand: Aap tab tak kuch nahi badal sakti jab tak aap khud apni aawaaz nahi uthaengi. Jab tak aap ye nahi kahengi ki "Bas, bahut hua!", tab tak aap sirf 'sacrifice' karti rahengi aur wo 'tamasha' dekhte rahenge.

Khamoshi ab galti nahi, gunah ban chuki hai. Yaad rakhiye, apni ladai ki nayika (hero) aapko khud banna hai. Jab tak aap khud nahi ladengi, koi aapka sahara nahi banega.

Mera aap sabse ek seedha aur kadwa sawaal hai:

 Hum 'Nari Sashaktikaran' ki baat karte hain, badi-badi scheme chalate hain. Par kya ye sach mein sashaktikaran hai? Kya ek aurat ko uske apne ghar mein qaidi bana kar rakhna sashakt hona hai? Agar 30 saal ki mehnat ke baad bhi ek aurat ko ek-ek rupaye ka hisaab dena pade aur CCTV ki nigrani mein jeena pade, toh hum samaj ke naate puri tarah nakam ho gaye hain. Kya main galat hoon? Kya ek aurat ka haq sirf roti banane aur hisaab dene tak hi seemit hai? Mujhe comment karke bataiye, kya yehi humari asliyat hai?

3. Bhag-daur aur Khud ki Care

Is ladai aur shop ki bhag-daur mein, main khud ko bhool hi gayi thi. Pollution aur garmi itni hai ki skin puri tarah damage ho gayi hai. Main ghar par herbal cheezein banakar lagati thi, par ab wo kafi nahi hain. Maine samjha ki jaise humein jeene ke liye azaadi chahiye, waise hi skin ko protect karne ke liye aaj ke waqt mein ek achhe sunscreen ki zarurat hai.

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4. Tangi aur Azaadi ka Antar

Dimaag aksar purani yaadon (us dahi ki katori) ki taraf bhatakta hai. Dimaag kehta hai, "Wahan dhang se khana milta tha." Par mujhe ab samajh aa gaya hai ki wahan jo khana milta tha, woh mere apmaan ki keemat thi. Aaj agar main tangi jhel rahi hoon, toh ye meri mehnat ki roti hai. Isme jo sukoon hai, woh kisi mehnge bhojan mein nahi hai. Ye roti meri azaadi ki hai.

5. Sapna: Mera Apna Sound-proof Kamra

Mujhe ek aisa ghar banana hai jahan ek aisa kamra ho jo "sound-proof" ho. Jahan duniya ka shor na ho, jahan sirf meri awaaz ho. Woh ghar sirf ee-nton ka nahi, mere sapnon ka hoga. Wahan main apni sharton par rahungi, apni skin ka dhyan rakhungi, aur apni mehnat ka khana khaungi.

Sabse Badi Sikh

Duniya kya bolegi, isse mera kuch nahi bigadega. Asli nuksan tab hota hai jab hum khud ki nazar mein gir jate hain. Main thak gayi hoon, par haar nahi maani hai. Kal jab suraj ugega, main phir se ladungi. Kyunki main jaanti hoon ki Baba Shyam dekh rahe hain, aur mera ye safar us manzil par zaroor pahunchega jahan se piche mud kar dekhne ki zarurat nahi hogi.

Apni izzat karna shuru karein, duniya aapki izzat apne aap karegi.

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#Nari Sashaktikaran #Swabhimaan #Women empowerment #Apni awaaz #Delhi life #Independence #Self respect #Dot And Key #Baba Shyam #Safar # jai sanvariya seth #Women Supporting Women #Duniya Ka Shor.

Shayari: 

Thak gayi hoon, par haar nahi maani hai,

Meri ladai, meri apni kahani hai.

Baba Shyam dekh rahe hain har mod par,

Jeet hogi meri, yahi bas thaan li hai."

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